Other people are not equipped nor qualified to establish your level of pride. Only you can do that.
Life gets crazy sometimes. We don't always know what is around the corner. Is my new job going to pan out? Is my marriage going to make it? Is my car going to last one more season or do I need to trade it in now?
I can sit here and write to encourage you, to inspire you, and I can even give you the blueprints to do it, but only YOU can make change happen.
Some of the easiest, most simple ways to become more productive, and eventually more successful, come from just a little bit of organization.