"True competitors are the ones who always play to win." Tom Brady
Other people are not equipped nor qualified to establish your level of pride. Only you can do that.
The first step in a new direction for your life, your job, your family...anything you want to change, is in the language that you use.
I want you to buy a 2019 Journal. Most book stores will have them. Doesn't have to be expensive or fancy, just find a journal that is a good fit for you. Then, as we begin to navigate through 2019, I want you to write in it EVERY SINGLE DAY.
I can sit here and write to encourage you, to inspire you, and I can even give you the blueprints to do it, but only YOU can make change happen.